"Develop a healthy relationship with food. If you’re hungry, eat. If you’re full, don’t eat. Eat vegetables to be good to your body, but eat ice cream to be good to your soul.
Take pictures of yourself frequently. Chronicle your life. Selfies are completely underrated. Even if the pictures are unflattering, keep them anyway. There will always be mountains and cities and buildings, but you will never look the same way as you did in that one moment in time.
Your worth does not depend on how desirable someone finds you. Spend less time in front of the mirror and more time with people who make you feel beautiful.
Close doors. Don’t hold onto things that no longer brings you happiness and do not help you grow as a person. It is okay to walk away from toxic relationships. You are not weak for letting go.
Forgive yourself. We all have something in our pasts that we are ashamed of, but they only weigh us down if we allow them to. Make amends with the old you and work every day to become the person that you’ve always wanted to be."
(Source: absentions, via bbellaaxo)
It’s not about the kissing, holding hands, the dates, the sex, and showing off. It’s about being with someone who makes you happy in a way that no one else can. It’s about being with someone who accepts you and your weirdness. It’s about being yourself around them and they can be their self around you.
"Being attached to someone who “took” your virginity is a concept.
It’s an idea that your friends, or mom, or boy friend all put into
your head at some point.
It has left you thinking that whoever you loose it to is your
soulmate, and that you must love and remember them for the
rest of your life. I promise you that this isn’t true.
Your virginity, your sex life belongs to you. No one owns your body
or has power over you because they were the first to get that close.
Get this concept out of your head. He didn’t “take” your virginity
because it’s not his to take. Own your body, own your soul, and
don’t let the first fucker to touch you think he’s got all the power."
(Source: till-forever-finds-me, via till-forever-finds-me)
"I don’t like when people say that you can’t stop loving someone, that you either always will or never did. I don’t think that’s true. I loved you, past tense. I don’t love you, present tense. I loved the idea of you I created in my head. I loved the nice things you said and did. I loved the way you were always smiling at me. And I loved you so much that I thought it would never stop, I thought that if I couldn’t love you I would die. You’re not that magnificent person I imagined, you did terrible things that took away any belief I had in myself and in love. You were undeserving of the happiness I brought into your life. So don’t let anyone say that you’ll never stop loving him.
Because here I am, not loving you."
(Source: till-forever-finds-me, via bbellaaxo)
(Source: rasenth, via justfuckingdoitttt)
You know whats fucking scary? The fact that I could literally change my life at any moment. I could stop talking to everyone that makes me unhappy. I could kiss whoever i want. I could shave my head or get on a plane or take my own life. Nothing is stopping me. The entire world is in my hands, and I have no idea what to do with it.
(Source: jamesbabeshaw, via joanaazevedoo)